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Allergy-Safe Party Menu Planner

One in 13 kids has a food allergy. That means at a party of 15, at least one guest has a restriction you need to plan for. This planner builds a safe, delicious menu that handles multiple allergies — without making the allergy kid feel singled out.

Written by Baljeet Aulakh | Last updated February 2026

Quick Answer

To plan an allergy-friendly birthday party menu, focus on naturally allergen-free foods like fresh fruit, grilled chicken, popcorn, corn tortilla tacos, and juice boxes. Use the free Allergy-Safe Menu Planner below to get a personalized safe menu for your specific allergens, age group, and guest count.

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Choose all allergens that guests need to avoid. We will filter out unsafe foods.

Select at least one allergen to generate a safe menu.

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What Are Safe Food Alternatives for Common Allergens?

Quick reference table for the top 7 food allergens with common party foods that contain them and safe alternatives you can serve instead. Use the planner above for a personalized menu.

AllergenCommon Party Foods to AvoidSafe Alternatives
🥜Tree Nuts / PeanutsCookies, trail mix, PB sandwiches, some sauces, candy barsSunButter, popcorn, fruit snacks, seed-based crackers
🥛Dairy / MilkPizza, cake, ice cream, mac & cheese, ranch dip, chocolateFruit popsicles, dairy-free cupcakes, oat milk, corn tortilla tacos
🌾Gluten / WheatPizza, hot dog buns, cake, cookies, pretzels, chicken nuggetsGF pasta, corn tortilla tacos, rice cakes, GF pretzels, fruit kabobs
🥚EggsCake, cupcakes, cookies, breaded nuggets, potato salad, pastaFruit popsicles, jello cups, grilled meats, fresh fruit
🫘SoyHot dogs, chicken nuggets, bread, edamame, soy sauce, some chipsGrilled chicken, corn on the cob, fresh fruit, homemade baked goods
🦐ShellfishShrimp skewers, crab dip, fish sticks (cross-contact)Chicken skewers, veggie sides, any non-seafood mains
🫓SesameHummus, burger buns, Asian sauces, crackers, breadsticksSesame-free hummus, corn tortillas, plain rice, veggie sticks

Get a Complete Allergy-Safe Party Plan

Safe menu sorted — now plan the rest. A free Party Genius plan includes allergy-safe activities (no playdough for gluten allergies!), themed decorations, and a shopping list that flags common allergens.

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Pro Tip

Always ask about allergies on the invitation — not after. Include the top 9 allergens (milk, eggs, fish, shellfish, tree nuts, peanuts, wheat, soy, sesame) as a checkbox on your RSVP. And here's the real tip: have fruit, popcorn (nut-free facility), and sunflower seed butter as safe defaults. They cover 90% of common restrictions.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best nut-free party food ideas for kids?

The best nut-free party foods include popcorn, fruit cups, SunButter sandwiches (on safe bread), tortilla chips with salsa, fruit popsicles, and juice boxes. Always check labels for "may contain" warnings about tree nuts or peanuts, and consider a fully nut-free menu if any guest has a severe allergy.

How do I plan an allergy-friendly birthday party?

Ask about allergies on your RSVP, choose a simple menu built around naturally allergen-free foods like fresh fruit, grilled chicken, rice, and vegetables. Label every dish with its ingredients, set up a separate allergy-safe food station, and keep original packaging so parents can check labels themselves.

What are good gluten-free party snacks for kids?

Great gluten-free party snacks include popcorn, tortilla chips with salsa or guacamole, rice cakes with jam, fresh fruit cups, veggie sticks with dairy-free dip, gluten-free pretzels, and fruit snack packets. For dessert, serve fruit popsicles, jello cups, or gluten-free cupcakes.

How do I prevent cross-contamination at a party with food allergies?

Use separate serving utensils for each dish, prepare allergy-safe food first in a clean kitchen, set up a designated allergy-safe station away from other foods, keep foods covered when not being served, and never reuse utensils between dishes. Label everything clearly.

What desserts are safe for kids with multiple food allergies?

Naturally safe desserts include fresh fruit kabobs, fruit popsicles made with 100% juice, jello cups, and dairy-free sorbets. For cake, order from a dedicated allergy-friendly bakery that can make gluten-free, dairy-free, egg-free, and nut-free cupcakes or cakes.

Should I ask parents about food allergies before a birthday party?

Absolutely — always include an allergy question on your party invitation or RSVP form. Ask specifically about the top allergens: nuts, dairy, gluten, eggs, soy, shellfish, and sesame. This gives you time to plan a safe menu and prevents dangerous reactions at the party.